Fixes#11451
A refactor of the Agent API passes metrics as protobufs, which include pointers to label name/value pairs. The aggregator tested for sameness by doing a shallow compare of label values, which for different stats reports would compare unequal because the pointers would be different.
This fix does a deep compare.
While testing I also noted that we neglect to compare template names. This is unlikely to have caused any issue in practice, since the combination of username/workspace is unique, but in the context of comparing metric labels we should do the comparison.
If a user creates a workspace, deletes it, then recreates from a different template, we could in principle have reported incorrect stats for the old template.
Refactors our DRPC service definitions slightly.
In the previous version, I inserted the RPCs from the tailnet proto directly into the Agent service. This makes things hard to deal with because DRPC then generates a new set of methods with new interfaces with the `DRPCAgent_` prefixed. Since you can't have a single method that takes different argument types, we couldn't reuse the implementation of those RFCs without a lot of extra classes and pass-thru methods.
Instead, the "right" way to do it is to integrate at the DRPC layer. So, we have two DRPC services available over the Agent websocket, and register them both on the DRPC `mux`.
Since the tailnet proto RPC service is now for both clients and agents, I renamed some things to clarify and shorten.
This PR also removes the `TailnetAPI` implementation from the `agentapi` package, and the next PR in the stack replaces it with the implementation from the `tailnet` package.