fix: exclude subagent chats from sidebar pagination (#24404)

GetChats now returns only root chats (parent_chat_id IS NULL).
A new GetChildChatsByParentIDs query fetches children for visible
roots and embeds them in each parent's Children field. The
singular getChat endpoint does the same.

Archive invariant is one-way: parent archived implies child
archived. Parent archive/unarchive cascades via root_chat_id.
Individual child archive is permitted; child unarchive while the
parent is archived is rejected atomically (row lock on child,
re-read parent inside the transaction). Embedded children are
filtered by the caller's archive state so individually-archived
children stay hidden from active-parent views.

Gitsync MarkStale uses GetChatsByWorkspaceIDs directly;
MarkStaleParams.OwnerID removed (dead after the switch).

Frontend: buildChatTree reads from the embedded children field,
WebSocket handlers route child events into the parent's children
array, and archiving a child strips it from the parent cache.

coderd/database/modelmethods.go

@@ -182,6 +182,10 @@ func (r GetChatsRow) RBACObject() rbac.Object {
 	return r.Chat.RBACObject()
 }
 
+func (r GetChildChatsByParentIDsRow) RBACObject() rbac.Object {
+	return r.Chat.RBACObject()
+}
+
 func (c ChatFile) RBACObject() rbac.Object {
 	return rbac.ResourceChat.WithID(c.ID).WithOwner(c.OwnerID.String()).InOrg(c.OrganizationID)
 }