feat: restart stopped workspaces on ssh command (#11050)

* feat: autostart workspaces on ssh & port forward

This is opt out by default. VScode ssh does not have this behavior

docs/cli/ssh.md

@@ -12,6 +12,16 @@ coder ssh [flags] <workspace>
 
 ## Options
 
+### --disable-autostart
+
+|             |                                           |
+| ----------- | ----------------------------------------- |
+| Type        | <code>bool</code>                         |
+| Environment | <code>$CODER_SSH_DISABLE_AUTOSTART</code> |
+| Default     | <code>false</code>                        |
+
+Disable starting the workspace automatically when connecting via SSH.
+
 ### -A, --forward-agent
 
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