perf: reduce number of queries made by /api/v2/workspaceagents/{id} (#21522)

Relates to https://github.com/coder/internal/issues/1214

The `ExtractWorkspaceAgentParam` middleware ends up making 4 database
queries to follow the chain of `WorkspaceAgent` -> `WorkspaceResource`
-> `ProvisionerJob` -> `WorkspaceBuild` -- but then dropping all that
hard work on the floor. The `api.workspaceAgent` handler that references
this middleware then has to do all of that work again, plus one more
query to get the related `User` so we can get the username. This pattern
is also mirrored in `getDatabaseTerminal` but without the middleware.

This PR:
* Adds a new query `GetWorkspaceAgentAndWorkspaceByID` to fetch all
this information at once to avoid the multiple round-trips,
* Updates the existing usage of `GetWorkspaceAgentByID` to this new
query instead,
* Updates `ExtractWorkspaceAgentParam` to also store the workspace in
the request context

Dalibo: [0.63ms](https://explain.dalibo.com/plan/40bb597f3539gc6c)

coderd/coderd.go

@@ -1436,9 +1436,7 @@ func New(options *Options) *API {
 						Optional: true,
 					}),
 					httpmw.RequireAPIKeyOrWorkspaceProxyAuth(),
-
-					httpmw.ExtractWorkspaceAgentParam(options.Database),
-					httpmw.ExtractWorkspaceParam(options.Database),
+					httpmw.ExtractWorkspaceAgentAndWorkspaceParam(options.Database),
 				)
 				r.Get("/", api.workspaceAgent)
 				r.Get("/watch-metadata", api.watchWorkspaceAgentMetadataSSE)